Fiancee going on Vegas vacation with brother in-law?
Is it awkward that my future wife went on a 4 day Vegas vacation with her brother in-law? She says that he’s been a family friend since she was like 8 and it’s not sexual or anything like that. Is it alright if I feel awkward about her doing this?
She invited me.
Her sister is completely cool with it.
I would of gone but I have a deployment for Iraq and could be called on to leave at anytime. But probably not until the 13th of May, but when she planned the trip I didn’t have a date, just the last week of April to the 20th of May.
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about 2 years ago
yes it is… i see no reason for that anyways did she already called you?
about 2 years ago
I don’t know about anyone ells but i would
about 2 years ago
Yes, it seems weird, especially since she didn’t ask you to come along.
about 2 years ago
Sounds as if there is some doubt. Do you really trust her enough? Be true to yourself and what you feel.
Personally, I wouldn’t feel comfortable.
about 2 years ago
It’s normal to feel awkward, but trust is part of any long term relationship. This is just one of those little tests that life throws at you to see the true power of love and trust.
about 2 years ago
Wake up you poor sap! Get out now! Dont waste your time your already screwed and your not even married !
about 2 years ago
What happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas.
You’ll hopefully never know.
But to answer your question, HELL YES you should feel awkward.
I’d be concerned about anyone that can handle Vegas for more than two days. She either has a gambling problem or worse.
about 2 years ago
If you don’t mind someone else banging her, it’s not odd.
about 2 years ago
If you have no reason to believe your fiancee is cheating, then you could be blowing things out of proportion. Technically, your fiancee’s brother-in-law is a RELATIVE through MARRIAGE, which would mean if she had a sexual relationship with him, that would be cheating on both you and the brother-in-law’s wife, in addition to being a form of incest, which is deeply taboo in North American culture and many other cultures throughout the world. Did your fiancee invite you to join them? If she did, but you couldn’t go due to work, education, etc. issues, remember that you were invited, and your future wife would NOT invite you if she had something to hide. However, if she didn’t invite you, and you WERE home and WANTED to attend, possibly ask her why you weren’t invited. Was the brother-in-law’s wife invited? If not, they may have a reason for not inviting either of you. Do they get along real well? Did you and the brother-in-law get in any disputes recently? The only way to find out for sure is to ask your fiancee, but do not do it in an accusatory manner or she may become defensive or angry. I am almost positive that their vacation was purely innocent.
about 2 years ago
I can see why it would make you uneasy…it just doesn’t sound right.
about 2 years ago
It seems a little strange. What kind of vibes do you get when you are around the two of them? Do you sense kind of an odd behavior or do they seem natural. What does her sister seem to think of the deal and why isn’t she going? You know the whole bunch better than anyone on yahoo. If it seems like it is on the up and up then it probably is.
about 2 years ago
It would’ve been strange if she didn’t invite you but since you said she did, then you probably have nothing to worry about.
My only question is, since she invited you, why didn’t you go? Now you’re sitting here asking questions on yahoo and wondering about it.
about 2 years ago
I think it is fine, especially if she invited you to go and her sister is ok with it. If it really bothers you, mention to her that you feel awkward. She cant know how you feel unless you tell her. Make sure when you mention your awkwardness with the situation it is not in an accusatory tone however, because this will probably put her on the defensive. Good luck with your problem. One more thing. Thank you for fighting for our freedoms. God Bless!